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    Well my vacation from Miami is over, back to the grind.. I also went to Key West, and Tampa. While in Tampa I met this girl, she worked at Bush Gardens. Anyway we talked for like an hour and a half about us, what we do and stuff, she put a Hena symbol on my arm this was before my tattoo. She gave me her Facebook and we talked lastnight. Anyway,could a long distance relationship even work? I don't know if she even would date me just saying, afraid to ask actually lol.. but just wondering if it was possible or am'I fooling myself? Well thanks for reading anyway.
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    answer is "No" move on
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    Sounds like a question for a “Dear Abby” advice column, but here goes. ….. Sure, a long distance relationship is possible, but it is not likely to last unless one of you eventually moves closer to the other one. Of course, then it’s no longer a long distance relationship.

    If one or both of you have the means to regularly travel to see the other, that’ll give you a better chance of maintaining the relationship.

    I assume she lives near Tampa. Where do you live?
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    Exactly Glenn.... Where do you live soulkeeper?

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    Yeah true, I knew the answer just needed to vent that... Lol.. Thanks anyway though guys..

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    I live in Massachusetts Jess.. but thinking of moving..

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    I think long term can only work when there is an end in sight. Like, you know how long it is till you'll be back together again. Also when there is a foundation to begin with. That's obviously only my view, as plenty of couples do it, but long term is very hard to do.

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    Well I'm going back in December I'll definitely go and see her or at least attempt to..

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    Tell ya what soulkeeper,you're going for her. I drove you from Orlando to Tampa ,and also walked what felt like 3 miles to help you find her.. Anyhow she's very pretty,and has a very nice personality.
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    If I could use fisherman's terminology, I hooked my mate locally. It was a battle and the pez eventually drew my line to foreign waters for two years. I stuck with it and eventually tired her out( me moreso ). I could of fried her the night I lured her in ( in fact I did)......That said, I survived the long distance. That meant traveling to her world once or twice, meeting her parents and eating their food and ingraining into her family . Till things iron out, strategic rendezvous are crucial to solidify any prospect........ Lot of pain and suffering is involved, but that was eventually conquered. The advantage is you have Skype. I dealt with $900 phone bills a month........ I wouldn't recommend it, but we dealt it...... I'm not one to discourage LOVE. Follow your bliss and lessen the distance. She'd be expecting that from you .

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    I have too move on.. It's for the best..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soulkeeper1060 View Post
    I have too move on.. It's for the best..
    GROW SOME CAJONES

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soulkeeper1060 View Post
    I have too move on.. It's for the best..
    You can always get that SeaWorld/BuschGardens annual pass anytime. ....... If you're under 25 and have no courtship, ya, keep moving.

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    Yeah I hear ya, I just fall quick it's one of my downfalls...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soulkeeper1060 View Post
    Yeah I hear ya, I just fall quick it's one of my downfalls...
    Ya thinking way to much about the situation. Have fun with it. You only live once ...

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    What if you invite her up to MA? The economy in MA is better than in FL, and she can probably get a better paying job in MA than working at Busch Gardens. Most importantly, how does she feel about you? After all, you only met recently. Is she as smitten with you as much as you are with her? If so, then maybe use Skype for a while, .... then see if she wants to move up your way.... or vice versa. Just make sure it's not all just you who is enthralled with her, while she is not that into you. That would come under the stalker topic.
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    That's really the age-old lament of people who live down here. Jess (when she was single) and me used to have the same conversation every few weeks. It would go like

    "Hey, so I'm hanging out with this guy/girl tonight..."

    "Yeah, how is he/she?"

    "Great. But lives in (fill in normal American city) so it's not gonna work."

    It's a two way street really. And people you meet on vacation, well, they're on VACATION. Which means not how they are in day to day life.

    But we do enjoy giving advice other than "Yeah, LIV is great on Saturdays" here once in a while do thanks for the question.
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    Dude, we had that conversation like last week.

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    I'm over it now, it was silly writing all that crap on here, but thank you..

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    Move on .... maybe visit each other every once in a while, but careful on making drastic life changes for someone who gave you a henna tattoo once. The last girl that I fell in love with who gave me a henna tattoo ended up being a man!

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